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What if you could be in an interpersonal setting with someone that allows you the flexibility and safety to SAY what’s on your mind without any form of judgment or criticism? You would boldly inherit the emerging of a new person, which would significantly add to your growth, development, and sustainability. While many may not pay direct attention to such a pivotal process, the ability to SAY what is on our mind is a clearance of any potential built-up fear, stress, anger or frustration. Fear, stress, anger, and frustration are imbalance elements of the body that leads to internal organ destruction thereby, affecting the external functionality of the person.  

By blending the ability to SAY what’s on our mind and the element of Safety, we have created and produced the word **Sayfety, which is the ability to feel SAFE to SAY what’s on our mind without facing any form of judgment or criticism.  

The current largest social media platform utilizes such a process to allow users to share what’s on their mind. The next time you log into your Facebook account, look at the question that is used in the inquiry section to post a status; What’s on your mind? Therefore, the context of **Sayfety is about being able to share what’s on our mind to prevent built-up bodily fear, stress, anger, and frustration, which significantly affects and damages the internal operation of the organs within the body.  Each person MUST have what we call a “Black Box Friendship,” also known as BBF. 

This is the blend of a Black Box from an aircraft, which remains the safest place on the aircraft before, during or after a crash. When everything and everyone else is destroyed during a crash, the Black Box remains the live evidence used to give verbal/vocal details of the destruction. The same for having a Black Box Friendship, which is a designated person that allows the SAFE space to SAY (verbal/vocal) what’s on our mind before, during or after a destructive portion of our circumstance. The most significant part about a BBF is that even when we are gone into the stage of death, the SAFE space is still available from that designated person, especially in carrying on our legacy. **Sayfety lives forever, not only in an Earthly moment. BBF is a core commitment that we would love for everyone to have in their life, as well as being a BBF in the life of someone else. It makes a world of significant difference when a SAFE space is available for someone to SAY what is on their mind without being rejected with a judgment or criticism.  

Here is a key component that relates and blends in with our Interpersonal Safety through **Sayfety; the alarm system. Once the alarm system goes off, which is a violation or trigger of the safety that the alarm is protecting, it has to be reset to continue its effective operating functionality as an alarm system. If it is not reset then it will continue to go off or face the inability to be an active alarm system and detect the next unsafe circumstance. As human beings, we are sometimes triggered by a circumstance or situation and our alarm safety system goes off. At that moment we need a SAFE space to SAY what’s on our mind, as there is some form of intrusion occurring or have occurred. An external expression is a form of resetting the internal triggered alarm if it is done in the correct manner and with the appropriate elements. Though it is not a common thing to do, the intruder and the potential person that was victimized should have the SAFE space to resolve the intrusion. At this moment, we are not solving for a problem that just happened, but rather providing NEW lifestyles that will be beneficial to both the intruder and the victimized person.   

However, many tend to get rid of the person who caused such a trigger rather than to reset our alarm and avoid such triggers later on down the road. There is a higher trend in today’s society about getting rid of negative people in our lives than there is the trend for us to SAY, “Learn how to reset our alarms and hash things out with the person.” Therefore, there are a lot of emotional alarms in the human bodies that have been triggered and are daily moving around without haven’t been reset, which shares the inability to be an active alarm system. Hence, there is easy access to explode on the next person who comes in contact with the un-reset emotional alarm. **Sayfety is one of the key elements in resetting this emotional alarm.